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Historically speaking I was raised as only child in
Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania by my parents. I loved sports,
basketball being the one that captured my attention and
passion. My father was Catholic and my mother Presbyterian and
they loved me with a sacrificial love. After high school, I
attended the University of Pennsylvania, played basketball and
graduated with a degree in chemical engineering. Planning to
continue my education be acquiring a masters in business
administration, I accompanied my college coach, Dick Harter,
to the University of Oregon in the fall of 1971. My wife,
Carol and I were married in the summer of 1973. At the age of
29, in March of 1978, I was named head coach at Oregon. I
would hold that position until March of 1983 when I resigned
my position, not winning enough games. (I was blessed to work
with wonderful people who continue to excel in the sports
world including Jim O'Brien, head coach of the Boston Celtics;
Stu Jackson, assistant commissioner of the NBA, Dave
Bollwinkel, former head coach at St. Mary's College in
California and now, among other duties, a motivational
speaker; Ernie Kent, head coach at Oregon; and Greg Graham,
head coach at Boise State University.)
Anxious to continue coaching, I accepted a position with Larry
Brown at the University of Kansas but within two months of
arriving in Lawrence, Kansas the course of my life changed
significantly when I decided to give up the thought of
returning to head coaching and accept an administrative
position with the Metro Conference. After short stops with the
Missouri Valley Conference and the Big West Conference in June
of 1992, I was named the executive director of the NABC. The
position I hold today.
What thrills me and fills me with thanksgiving is when I look
back on my life to see the fingerprints of God on my life.
From the days of my youth there was a consciousness of a
spiritual world that I could not see but just new existed.
Without question the Lord brought my wife Carol into my life
early in my senior year of college. Carol grew up in formal
structure of the First Baptist Church of Statesboro, Georgia.
In 1973 my wife Carol and I were married in an American
Baptist church in Eugene. Shortly after being named head coach
at the University of Oregon, I received Christ as my Lord and
savior at that same church. I came to know the salvation
message of the life, death, burial and resurrection of Jesus
Christ and the importance of being born-again through our
fellowship in that church. During the last 18 months of my
head coaching duties, I became acquainted with living in the
fire. Not winning with the frequency of the 70's, the
criticisms of me seemed to grow in intensity and in frequency
during my last two years. As I desperately sought to keep my
head up and work positively through a very difficult situation
and time, I found myself identifying more and more with Jesus.
As I reflected in my mind of how he had been physically
beaten, spit upon, degraded, betrayed and crucified, yet how
he stood strong and loving in the face of so much hate, anger
and malice, I was encouraged and strengthened that I could
face the minor adversity that was before me. I resigned my
position in mid-February of 1983.
Unbeknownst to me at the time, God was opening doors and
directing my paths. Shortly afterward the season ended,
vice-president of the Dallas Cowboys, Gil Brandt, called to
offer me temporary employment for the spring working with the
Cowboy management and signing free agents to contracts. For
someone whose self-worth was in cardiac arrest, the
opportunity with the Cowboys was sweet and timely. Gil Brandt
remains a dear friend to this day. Further hope and favor came
in the early spring when Larry Brown offered me a position
although he was not sure where he was going to be coaching the
following year. He was with the New Jersey Nets at the time we
spoke but did, in fact, accept the job at the University of
Kansas weeks later. After two months as an assistant coach at
KU, I was offered a position as assistant commissioner with
the Metro Conference. I accepted the job and began to pursue
my future in athletic administration.
I would work with the Metro Conference for two years. Carol
and I both sensed that something was missing in our lives.
Several years of soul searching for the answer of what was
missing in my life, I realized, as though a light had gone off
in my head, that I was missing the intensity of the fiery
trial surrounding my coaching performance at Oregon. More
specifically, it was the intimacy with and identification with
Jesus Christ that I was missing. He had carried me, sustained
me and delivered me. (In the book of Daniel, King
Nebuchadnezzar has three Hebrew children, Shadrach, Meshach
and Abednego thrown in a fiery furnace. The King sees four men
walking about in the blazing furnace and declares that the
fourth man looks like the son of God. I can identify with
being in the fire with Jesus Christ.)
As much as I had depended on Him for hope and encouragement my
last 18 months at Oregon, once free from the daily anguish and
pressure, I returned to being confident in me and my ability
to solve my problems and that of my family. Life returned to
being all about me. There were problems and challenges that
were beyond my ability to solve. In retrospect, He was so
gracious, actively at work in our family's lives, leading us
to the help we needed despite us not giving Him the credit and
all the glory due Him. He prospered us financially, delivered
us out of new fiery trials, and gave us favor with people who
crossed our path.
In May of 1985 while serving as commissioner of the Missouri
Valley Conference in St. Louis that Carol and I discovered
what we recognized but could not identify as the missing piece
of our lives, intimacy with the triune God, the Father, Son
and the Holy Spirit. It was during our three years in St.
Louis that God revealed Himself to us as the Living Christ,
who is constantly at work in our lives transforming us into
His image. We would say that we took the picture of God off
the wall because the living presence of God was indwelling us
by His Spirit and we could get to know Him personally in the
present through prayer and reading the Word of God. There was
no need for a lifeless picture of what God was in the past. It
was during this time we were baptized in the Holy Spirit and
began to attend churches where the Word of God was preached
with power and the presence of the Holy Spirit was encouraged.
We found ourselves thirsting for more of God's presence, more
of His Word and more opportunities to learn from others who
were walking with God in their daily lives. Along with about
50 or so other Christians we began to attend a weekly meeting
with a young preacher named Joyce Meyer. She now speaks to
millions upon millions of people around the world at
conferences as well as by radio and television. Among the
messages of God that we heard revealed to us through Joyce
Meyer was that God wants us healed of sickness and delivered
from every yoke of bondage that would enslave His children
including drugs, alcohol, pornography, anger, gossip,
unforgiveness and every besetting sin. Furthermore, He wanted
to personally and progressively transform us by His Spirit and
through His Word into the image of Christ, the Word of God.
There were plenty of tests and trials in our life but we
learning to lean on Him and His Word based on the promises of
God for those who receive Christ as Lord and Savior through
His redemptive work fulfilled at Calvary's cross.
In 1986 the Lord showed me in a dream a vision that would come
true some six years later. I saw what appeared from a distance
the silhouette of a huge shade tree against a gold, pastel
colored sky. I then found myself moving toward the tree and
then standing next to the tree in a garden. There was a stone
fence in the background. The tree was beautiful with an old
twisted trunk and long, strong limbs full of leaves. And there
was fruit on the tree and fruit on the ground and the fruit
was basketballs. At the time I recognized that the Lord was
showing me a dream of future significance and that the
fulfillment of the dream involve basketball and me. The
beginning of the fulfillment of that dream was realized when
in May of 1992 when I was hired to be executive director of
the NABC.
God provided another opportunity to move. After three years in
St. Louis, in the spring of 1988 I was named commissioner of
the Big West Conference. We moved to Irvine, California, and
joined a small church. In St. Louis we sat and learned about
God and the things of God. In Irvine, we began to serve the
body of believers within the church and share what God was
accomplishing in and through our lives. It was a time of
growth to witness God working through us to meet the needs of
others. The Bible states, "many are the afflictions of the
righteous but the Lord delivers out of them all." Once again
our family faced adversities and challenging circumstances but
we began to discover that the Lord was meeting our need and
revealing Himself to us in each situation we faced as our
Provider, our Deliverer, our Healer, our Shepard and our
Friend.
Despite the dream of the Tree of Life with the fruit of
basketballs in 1986, I did not make any connection between the
NABC and myself. In 1992 executive director for seventeen
years, Joe Vancisin, decided to retire. George Raveling, then
coach of USC, was the obvious choice to replace to be the next
executive director. I bumped into George on the streets of
Minneapolis in March of 1992 during the Final Four. It was
during our brief conversation that he mentioned that he wanted
to continue coaching at USC and was not going to take the
position. A few moments later and for the first time, I
realized that the NABC was in my future. Weeks later, after a
number of candidates had been interviewed by members of the
Board of Directors, NABC President Johnny Orr contacted me and
offered me the position as executive director. The NABC
position would pay me less salary than what I was making with
the Big West and require moving from Southern California to
Kansas City. Once again God was again asking us to move, and
for less money, if we wanted His will to be fulfilled in our
lives. We moved to Overland Park, Kansas during the summer of
1992.
We have lived in the Kansas City area for ten years (moved
twice more within that time) serving the NABC. The tests,
trials and tribulations that accompany life whether related to
the NABC, or family or marriage continue but the grace and
love of God continue to overcome every one of them.
During the past ten years, the NABC Board of Directors, member
coaches and NABC staff have truly had an impact. For me it is
not an accident or happenstance, but the Lord. I bear witness
to His blessings, protection, and favor daily. I have seen Him
do what people have said is impossible. I have seen doors open
that were closed permanently. I watch Him reveal Himself and
touch the lives of people through the many accomplishments of
the association. They include:
Coaches vs. Cancer
I believe the best days are ahead for the NABC and its member
coaches. I believe that God is going to reveal Himself to our
member coaches in dramatic ways and through our coaches
people' lives will be impacted in a very positive way.
Having been a coach and having walked through the fire of
fighting to keep ones' job, I can identify with our coaches.
As many as are successful and rooted in their jobs due to post
season accomplishments, there are many more coaches, head and
assistant coaches, who are on the edge yearly trying to
breakthrough to security and stability in their jobs. My wife
and I pray daily for our coaches and their families that God
would meet their every need whether that need is physical,
emotional, mental or spiritual for themselves, their wife and
children. We recognize the very public existence that the
entire family lives each day and the pressures that derive
from being in the public eye. We can identify with the fear
that can arise when one's job is in jeopardy and the future is
in doubt. We can understand the strain that coaching can place
on marriages and family relationships. We also recognize that
one's "friends" may be there during the good times but absent
when success is fleeting. We also have empathy for each coach
and family member, who looking for relief from the stress can
seek comfort in alcohol or drugs or other outlet provided by
the world. In the end we know the answer for every situation
is Christ and the hope for each coach, spouse and child is
found in developing a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.
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